Ok. There have been many steps to fixing this particular topic but I may have found a way.

It was really simple, I can now, RE-OPEN A GAME on my vboy and load saves, it was a blissful miracle.

ok, heres what "I" did, I opened vBoy for the 100th time, trying still to find a version that worked, and once again i couldn't reopen the same game, so.

I deleted everything on the menu.

1.Pokemon
2.vBoy demo (what came with it.)

and wow it worked.